Ok, I just saw a thing that cannot be unseen and I had so many "snide remarks" welling up that I respected expressed wishes that I keep my snide remarks to myself and "get a blog".
There was a photo showing locations that punished homosexuslity by death. Instantly I thought, well duh, move then, if you do not like the rules sonewhere. It reminded me of that Lady why lived in Mississippi and felt prosecuted because she was not religious and tried to remove all prayer from social life. I get so upset, how one or few people want to gain their "freedom" by taking away everyone elses, when people are "free" to live where they want. Second I sort of laughed at the terminology "punishable by death" cause, to me homosexuality already is such in itself. I mean, think I f Animals and how many genus or species are homosexual. Probably, any that were are endangered or extinct, unless sone species evolved to a point where sexual reproduction did not require both sexes.
My final tirade was how on the map, it was instantly obvious that the only places where it was acceptable were non acvanced, third world countries. So, in a blink, I thought, hmm, it must be a part of being civilized to realize the punishment of a bahavior that otherwise might kill off a nation ought to be discouraged. With that I wondered if further enlightenment comes because of cultural advancements or whether the enlightenment causes advancements.
I held back my snide comments, until I overheard my children speaking and it more forceably came into mind, so here is my verbal vomit: I think the world needs to stop equating sex and love. It may be that live is the foundation of things as they are, but I have learned that they need not be. I get so extremely tired of people claiming and preaching the entitlement to love, and thereby happiness.
ReplyDeleteSure, happiness is achieved and possible regardless of situation and not a biproduct of falling in love.
My children are a product of sex, nurturing is out of love and shpuld be so it needs to be taught and passed down, but homosexual couples could teach nurting and feel it themselves. There are seperate bonds between spouses as is with Children.
Happiness is most likely to be stumbled on if you fall in love, but staying together is harder and less likely is your marriage was based on a human instict.
I have read extremely good arguments like, if you do not love eachother (who knows what one means by that)you need not stay together for the children, because you are actually not helping them at all. This is untrue. Stay together despite feelings shows that it is more than fleeting desires that make a family, and I think that is a far better thing to teach our children, or else the divorce epidemic becomes a thing as does homosexuality or any other thing that is naturally desired. Yes, I wish I had fallen in love, just as I wish I was skinnier, but that is not my source of happiness. It is what I choose to feel and become that matters more, not who I am as a result of being born with this body or how I was taught and nurtured. If we measure ourselves with those standards we will always be lacking, always.
Mankind has survived so much, do not be it's weak link.
Humor immerges. Duh, everyone knows happiness comes from eating a Troll! Or was that a wedding cake?
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